Crucial Conversations
Kerry Patterson
27 people recommended it in 15 threads, 2011–2023.
What people on Hacker News said
half is common sense; half is good tips to practice everyday.
Learn how to argue with people without starting fights. Allowed me to look at the situation more objectively
Crucial Conversations” is another really important book that teaches how to safely deal with very hard conversations.
I read these books when I first got into management and they changed so many things about the way I communicate with others.
breaks down how to have what might otherwise be an uncomfortable conversation about anything. I really think everyone should read it.
In that moment, the guidance is a serious level up. If read outside of that context you'll say "well, yeah, sure, duh." In situ, it will help you better communicate (speaking and listening).
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